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charu_01
charu_01
Speech is silver
Oct 5 2009, 3:43 AM EDT | Post edited: Oct 5 2009, 3:43 AM EDT
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Sarnath
Sarnath
1. RE: Speech is silver
Oct 5 2009, 3:44 AM EDT | Post edited: Oct 5 2009, 3:44 AM EDT
Right , speech has multi dimensions 8  out of 8 found this valuable. Do you?    
mallika_00
mallika_00
2. RE: Speech is silver
Oct 6 2009, 2:05 AM EDT | Post edited: Oct 6 2009, 2:05 AM EDT
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gowthamanappu
gowthamanappu
3. Spiritual Story!!!
Oct 13 2009, 1:58 PM EDT | Post edited: Oct 13 2009, 1:58 PM EDT
A group of alumni, highly established in their careers, got together to visit their old university professor. Conversation soon turned into complaints about stress in work and life.

Offering his guests coffee, the professor went to the kitchen and returned with a large pot of coffee and an assortment of cups - porcelain, plastic, glass, crystal, some plain looking, some expensive, some exquisite - telling them to help themselves to the coffee.

When all the students had a cup of coffee in hand, the professor said: "If you noticed, all the nice looking expensive cups have been taken up, leaving behind the plain and cheap ones. While it is normal for you to want only the best for yourselves, that is the source of your problems and stress.

Be assured that the cup itself adds no quality to the coffee. In most cases it is just more expensive and in some cases even hides what we drink. What all of you really wanted was coffee, not the cup, but you consciously went for the best cups... And then you began eyeing each other's cups.

Now consider this: Life is the coffee; the jobs, money and position in society are the cups. They are just tools to hold and contain Life, and the type of cup we have does not define, nor change the quality of life we live.

Sometimes, by concentrating only on the cup, we fail to enjoy the coffee. Savor the coffee, not the cups! The happiest people don't have the best of everything. They just make the best of everything. Live simply. Love generously. Care deeply. Speak kindly.
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charu_01
charu_01
4. RE: Spiritual Story!!!
Oct 14 2009, 5:17 AM EDT | Post edited: Oct 14 2009, 5:17 AM EDT
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gowthamanappu
gowthamanappu
5. Woman and the Window!!!
Oct 14 2009, 1:23 PM EDT | Post edited: Oct 14 2009, 1:23 PM EDT
A young couple moves into a new neighborhood. The next morning, while
they are having their breakfast, the young woman sees her neighbour hang the wash outside.
That laundry is not very clean, she said, she doesn't know how to
wash correctly. Perhaps she needs a better laundry soap.
Her husband looked on, but remained silent. Every time her neighbour
would hang her wash to dry, the young woman would make the same
comment.

About one month later, the woman was surprised to see a nice clean
wash on the line and said to her husband: 'Look! She has learned how
to wash correctly. I wonder who taught her this.'
The husband said: 'I got up early this morning and cleaned our
windows!'

And so it is with life: 'What we see when watching others depends on
the purity of the window through which we look. Before we give any
criticism, it might be a good idea to check our state of mind and ask
ourselves if we are ready to see the good rather than to be looking
for something in the person we are about to judge. '!!!
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charu_01
charu_01
6. RE: Woman and the Window!!!
Oct 15 2009, 1:51 AM EDT | Post edited: Oct 15 2009, 1:51 AM EDT
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gowthamanappu
gowthamanappu
7. Funny story but Very good moral!!
Oct 15 2009, 12:51 PM EDT | Post edited: Oct 15 2009, 12:51 PM EDT
A father from Chennai calls his son in Denmark and says, "I hate to ruin your day son, but I have to tell you that your mother and I are getting a divorce 35 years of marriage... and that much misery is enough!" "Dad, what are you talking about?" the son screams. "We can't stand the sight of each other any longer," the father says. "We're sick of each other, and I'm sick of talking about this, so you call your sister in Germany and tell her!" Frantic, the son calls his sister, who explodes on the phone. "Like heck they're getting divorced," she shouts, "I'll take care of this." She calls Chennai immediately, and screams at father, "You are not getting divorced. Don't do a single thing until I get there. I'm calling my brother back, and we'll both be there tomorrow. Until then, don't do a thing, DO YOU HEAR??" and she hangs up. The father hangs up his phone and turns to his wife. "Okay", he says, "It's all
set. They're both coming for Diwali and paying their own airfare!!" MORAL: No man/woman is busy in this world all 365 days. The sky is not going to fall down if you take few days LEAVE and meet your dear ones. OFFICE WORK IS NOT EVERYTHING IN LIFE and MONEY MAKING IS NOT EVERYTHING IN LIFE. AFTER ALL WE WORK FOR SOMEONE ELSE'S DREAM.
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mallika_00
mallika_00
8. RE: Funny story but Very good moral!!
Oct 16 2009, 2:55 AM EDT | Post edited: Oct 16 2009, 2:55 AM EDT
It is funny but reveals the anguish of the klds towards their parents absurd thinking 5  out of 5 found this valuable. Do you?    
gowthamanappu
gowthamanappu
9. Temper control!!!
Oct 16 2009, 1:11 PM EDT | Post edited: Oct 16 2009, 1:11 PM EDT
There once was a little boy who had a bad temper. His father gave him a bag of nails and told him that every time he lost his temper, he must hammer a nail into the fence.

The first day the boy had driven 37 nails into the fence. Over the next few weeks as he learned to control his anger, the number of nails hammered daily, gradually dwindled down. He discovered it was easier to hold his temper than to drive those nails into the fence. Finally the day came when the boy didn’t lose his temper at all. He told his father about it and the father suggested that the boy now pull out one nail for each day that he was able to hold his temper.

The days passed and the young boy was finally able to tell his father that all the nails were gone. The father took his son by the hand and led him to the fence. He said “you have done well, my son, but look at the holes in the fence. The fence will never be the same. When you say things in anger, they leave a scar just like this one.”

You can put a knife in a man and draw it out. It won’t matter how many times you say I’m sorry, the wound is still there.

Make sure you control your temper the next time you are tempted to say something you will regret later.
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sara_narasimhan
sara_narasimhan
10. RE: Temper control!!!
Oct 20 2009, 4:45 AM EDT | Post edited: Oct 20 2009, 4:45 AM EDT
great episode and well thoughtout ideas 4  out of 4 found this valuable. Do you?    
gowthamanappu
gowthamanappu
11. An interesting story!!!
Oct 22 2009, 3:48 AM EDT | Post edited: Oct 22 2009, 3:48 AM EDT
"A son and his father were walking on the mountains.

Suddenly, his son falls, hurts himself and screams: "AAAhhhhhhhhhhh!!!"

To his surprise, he hears the voice repeating, somewhere in the mountain: "AAAhhhhhhhhhhh!!!"

Curious, he yells: "Who are you?"

He receives the answer: "Who are you?"

And then he screams to the mountain: "I admire you!"

The voice answers: "I admire you!"

Angered at the response, he screams: "Coward!"

He receives the answer: "Coward!"

He looks to his father and asks: "What's going on?"

The father smiles and says: "My son, pay attention."

Again the man screams: "You are a champion!"

The voice answers: "You are a champion!"

The boy is surprised, but does not understand.

Then the father explains: "People call this ECHO, but really this is LIFE.

It gives you back everything you say or do.

Our life is simply a reflection of our actions.

If you want more love in the world, create more love in your heart.

If you want more competence in your team, improve your competence.

This relationship applies to everything, in all aspects of life;

Life will give you back everything you have given to it."
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mallika_00
mallika_00
12. RE: An interesting story!!!
Oct 22 2009, 6:15 AM EDT | Post edited: Oct 22 2009, 6:15 AM EDT
Nice gowtham, thanks for sharing such a loving story. 3  out of 3 found this valuable. Do you?    
gowthamanappu
gowthamanappu
13. Trust is not in its bind, but in its bond.
Oct 23 2009, 10:28 AM EDT | Post edited: Oct 23 2009, 10:28 AM EDT
Little girl and her father were crossing a bridge. The father was kind of scared so he asked his little daughter, "Sweetheart, please hold my hand so that you don't fall into the river." The little girl said, "No, Dad. You hold my hand." "What's the difference?" Asked the puzzled father. "There's a big difference," replied the little girl. "If I hold your hand and something happens to me,
chances are that I may let your hand go. But if you hold my hand, I know for sure that no matter what happens, you will never let my hand go."
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In any relationship, the essence of trust is not in its bind, but in its bond.



So hold the hand of the person who loves you rather than expecting them to hold yours...

This message is too short......but carries a lot of Feelings.!!!
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sara_00
sara_00
14. RE: Trust is not in its bind, but in its bond.
Oct 24 2009, 2:15 AM EDT | Post edited: Oct 24 2009, 2:15 AM EDT
True, well said and nice sharing this 2  out of 2 found this valuable. Do you?    
gowthamanappu
gowthamanappu
15. The problem!!!
Oct 24 2009, 8:30 AM EDT | Post edited: Oct 24 2009, 8:30 AM EDT
A man feared his wife wasn't hearing as well as she used to and he
thought she might need a hearing aid. Not quite sure how to approach
her, he called the family Doctor to discuss the problem. The Doctor
told him there is a simple informal test the husband could perform to
give the Doctor a better idea about her hearing loss.

Here's what you do," said the Doctor, "stand about 40 feet away from
her, and in a normal conversational speaking tone see if she hears
you.
If not, go to 30 feet, then 20 feet, and s o on until you get a
response."

That evening, the wife is in the kitchen cooking dinner, and he was
in the den. He says to himself, "I'm about 40 feet away, let's see
what happens."
Then in a normal tone he asks, 'Honey, what's for dinner?"

No response.

So the husband moves to closer to the kitchen, about 30 feet from his
wife and repeats, "Honey, what's for dinner?"

Still no response.

Next he moves into the dining room where he is about 20 feet from his

wife and asks, Honey, what's for dinner?"

Again he gets no response so,

He walks up to the kitchen door, about 10 feet away. "Honey, what's
for dinner?"

Again there is no response.

So he walks right up behind her. "Honey, what's for dinner?"

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"James, for the FIFTH time I've said, CHICKEN!"

Moral of the story:
The problem may not be with the other one as we always think,
could be very much within us..!
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mallika_00
mallika_00
16. RE: The problem!!!
Oct 25 2009, 3:00 AM EDT | Post edited: Oct 25 2009, 3:00 AM EDT
nice, thanks gowtham for sharing. 1  out of 1 found this valuable. Do you?